Loves Wisdom​

Vasumati Sharon Hancock

​By love, the bitter becomes sweet;
by love, copper becomes gold;
by love, the dregs become clear;
by love, the dead become living;
by love, the king becomes a slave.
From wisdom, love grows.
Has stupidity ever placed
Someone on such a throne?
Rumi


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Loves Wisdom is the result of over 35 years working with many different people in Relationships.  People who have come looking to go deeper into Love, Relationship and Intimate partnership.  Love has its own inherent depth and wisdom and in order to access this wisdom we have to align ourselves with a bigger self and a new dimension of love.

This love is based on intelligence, understanding,  acceptance  and maturity. This is not an intellectual intelligence but an innate intelligence of the heart. Part of this is recognizing the tremendous gift that Intimate Relationships offer us . As we open to the challenges that being with another gives us it opens our hearts wider to a bigger sense of love and that this commitment to be open slowly brings us closer to our spiritual nature and our inner being.

 “The free flow of love between two intimate partners inevitably invites the broken wounded places in us to step forward into awareness. As that happens and we find ourselves tossed around in the stormy waves of relative love, it can be quite challenging to keep sourcing the pristine love we glimpse in moments of pure opening.”
John Welwood

If we are to cultivate a new spirit of engagement in our intimate relationships we need to recognize and welcome the powerful opportunity that intimate relationships provide— to awaken to our true nature. When we approach relationship in this way, intimacy becomes a path— an unfolding process of personal and spiritual development.  

Before we can form a relationship with another we have to have an intimate relationship with ourselves, where we can self reflect and look deeply into and beyond our defenses and self-images. In my work on Relationship a lot of emphasis is placed on each person gaining a deeper sense of self and more personal integration.  A lot of this comes through some form of spiritual practice or orientation together with personal therapy.

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Online Workshops

The Perfect Paradox of Relationships​

An online 8 week course for men & women of all orientations designed for us to take an honest and compassionate look at how we relate​ to others & to find ways to deepen our capacity for intimacy & growth in our close relationships
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The Kali Emanation

Kali is well known as a fierce, rageful yet loving deity. She represents the passionate and fearless aspect of the feminine and is associated with feminine rage and anger. For women to grow and integrate into wholeness, we need to find a place where we are comfortable and responsible with our ferocity and our Anger. ​
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​Birth of the Tantric Woman

An online 5 week course for women designed to heal, embody and deepen our connection to our feminine essence incorporating psychotherapy, energy and meditation techniques and practice
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