By love, the bitter becomes sweet;
by love, copper becomes gold;
by love, the dregs become clear;
by love, the dead become living;
by love, the king becomes a slave.
From wisdom, love grows.
Has stupidity ever placed
Someone on such a throne?
Loves Wisdom is the result of over 35 years working with many different people in Relationships. People who have come looking to go deeper into Love, Relationship and Intimate partnership. Love has its own inherent depth and wisdom and in order to access this wisdom we have to align ourselves with a bigger self and a new dimension of love.
This love is based on intelligence, understanding, acceptance and maturity. This is not an intellectual intelligence but an innate intelligence of the heart. Part of this is recognizing the tremendous gift that Intimate Relationships offer us . As we open to the challenges that being with another gives us it opens our hearts wider to a bigger sense of love and that this commitment to be open slowly brings us closer to our spiritual nature and our inner being.
“The free flow of love between two intimate partners inevitably invites the broken wounded places in us to step forward into awareness. As that happens and we find ourselves tossed around in the stormy waves of relative love, it can be quite challenging to keep sourcing the pristine love we glimpse in moments of pure opening.”
If we are to cultivate a new spirit of engagement in our intimate relationships we need to recognize and welcome the powerful opportunity that intimate relationships provide— to awaken to our true nature. When we approach relationship in this way, intimacy becomes a path— an unfolding process of personal and spiritual development.
Before we can form a relationship with another we have to have an intimate relationship with ourselves, where we can self reflect and look deeply into and beyond our defenses and self-images. In my work on Relationship a lot of emphasis is placed on each person gaining a deeper sense of self and more personal integration. A lot of this comes through some form of spiritual practice or orientation together with personal therapy.
Online Courses and Workshops 2021
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The spiritual basis for intimacy
Moving from Co-dependency to Interdependency.. flyer coming shortly
In Person Workshops
Due to Covid many of the groups may be cancelled or rescheduled. For now some of the work will take place online. Contact me directly for more details.
May 19 to 24
Life after trauma
Description: There is life to be lived after you have lived through traumatic or overwhelming experiences . Trauma can make us afraid to be injured again but with the right tools and understanding life can again be lived to the full, enjoying self, other, intimacy and sexuality.
June 2 -6
Co dependency, Internal Family systems and Psychodrama
Description: In this workshop we will look at separation anxiety, shame and dependency versus freedom and autonomy in relationships. We will explore this using two new highly creative methods, psychodrama and internal family systems
This could be for personal growth or as a professional training.
Introduction to Essence work
Description: This is an introduction to working with the Essential dimension.
We will learn to understand different qualities of Essence and how to bridge the psychological and spiritual dimensions.
June 25 to 27
Big Mind Big Heart module 3
Description: Working with the parts,sub- personalities and exploring healing the wounded child.Understanding the narcissistic wound and how to recognise and heal it.